Ok, then go for the second opinion ASAP - don't worry about which option until you get it. That is something concrete that you can do. I am going to put in a plug for Dana Farber up in Boston for the second opinion. Remember, you and Don don't have to trapse up there, just his medical records. Second opinions happen all the time - no insult to the doctor in any way, shape or form.
Last edited by Maria; 07-03-2012 02:58 PM.