Callie-
There are no words. This kind of shock is numbing. I'll pray for your family. I'm so sorry you're going thru this. Ive been where you are. In 2007, 2009 and 2010. When you get to the point that you seek assistance from this forum, I hope that I am able to help you. In this instance, my signature would be that of 'caregiver'; in general, as the cancers are different. But I've been there and my heart breaks for you right now. I hope you have others in your life to help.
Hang on tight and ask for help.
-Wendy

Wendy 48@dx
Dx 2/11 stgIVSCC BOT
Dx 3/11 stgI breast (3rd of 4 sisters dx'd)
4/11 dbl mastectomy; no further tx reqd
5/11 PEG placemt;
5/11-7/11 chemox7;IMRTx35;
MRND 9/11
11/12 Dx:papilledema;hydrocephalus;psuedotumor.
11/12 LumbarPeritoneal Shunt
12/12 PEG Out; 100 lbs lost
All scans clear