Bless your heart Sue!

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this kind of crap on top of everything else that's going on. I used to think that if I ever found out that my husband was cheating, he'd be out the door with a boot up his butt. As I've gotten older, my views have changed. You do what's best for you. You can reconcile and if you feel that it's not something you can overcome with him......you can always change your mind. Nothing is set in stone.

Big hugs headed your way!