Good Morning Sue:
Not sure why I'm writing because I have no answer for you. I just wanted you to know how sorry I am for the situation you are in. The cancer itself is bad enough, without having the other heartbreaking experience. Because he supported and cared for you through your treatments, he must love you. For me, it would just be so hard to ever believe him again. I know other women who have forgiven their husbands for the same, but they never are able to trust them. So, I guess you have to decide if you care and need him enough to "hope" things are over and stay with him, or close the book on him. You still are young enough to possibly start your life anew with someone else. I hope for the best for you.
julieann
Julieann
Nov 2007 SCC on right tonsil following tonsillectomy. Was smoker, QUIT. (Stage IV T2 N2b) 7 weeks radiation one day/wk chemo (carboplatin and 5-FU). Allergic to Taxol; PEG in, lost 30 lbs. TX completed January 2008. PEG out mid- 2008. PET/CT 1/17/2011;2/3/12 NEGATIVE for cancer