Hi Lisa. Glad they found the primary. Your husband's diagnosis sounds so much like my husbands'. Continue to post and ask any and all questions. You are not weak in getting something to help you with your nerves. My choice was Luna di Luna - Pinot Grigio smile. I started a personal diary that I typed in a word document which help me greatly deal with my emotions and keeping a record of everything as it happened. You and you husband WILL get through this.

Wanda (47) caregiver to husband John (56) age at diag.(2009)
1-13-09 diagnosed Stage IV BOT SCC (HPV+)
2-12-09 PEG placed, 7-6-09 removed
Cisplatin 7 weeks, 7 weeks (35) IMRT
4-15-09 - treatment completed
8-09,12-09-CT Scans clear, 4-10,6-11-PET Scans clear
4-2013 - HBO (30 dives) tooth extraction
10-2019 - tooth extraction, HBO (10 dives)
11-2019 - Left lateral tongue SCC - Stage 2