Cecila
You may need to take matters in hand, so to speak, to jump start the process. I just went back through my journals to see how long my slump lasted last time and it was from mid radiation until 2 weeks after TX ended. Just no desire. Even then, until I was off the pain pills, our frequency was drastically reduced.
Take all the pain, fatigue etc and add the male performance anxiety inherent in starting up again to understand why Martin may be avoiding any risk here. My wife was extremely understanding and patient in helping me get back up to speed,
It will improve though.
charm