You know I started a thread about this topic almost 3 years ago when I first came here and it's not been a frequent topic so maybe it only affects a few of us or maybe it's not that easy to talk about it but..... my wife and I have a pretty active sex life. I mean she was a Sky Slut at one point of her career but I digress. Anyway sex is a very normal part of our life and when I was just to "preoccupied" during the throws of Tx to either just not be interested or even worst couldn't it affected both of us. Probably me more than her because I guess it meant another part of my life had been taken from me by this cancer. I don't care how strong your sexual desires are, at some point your body has to reprioritize it's functions to deal with all the physical and mental challenges it's dealing with. I don't remember how long the Tx affected my desire or performance (probably 3 to 4 weeks) but I do know it was one of the first things to come back when I walked out of my tunnel.