I was wondering if I should ask as well.
Our sex life has been non existant since mid September. Martin seems to have no desire. But we cuddle in bed.
I think as he is still healing his body is saving up his energy. But I think it should improve soon as he gets more umpf.

Girlfriend to Martin 49 years old at diagnosis
Diagnosed with SCC unknown primary June 2008.
Cancer found in single node Stage N2A (3 to 6cm).
Tonsilectomy 16th june, Radical modified neck dissection left side 30th june.
30 TX radiotherapy ended 9th October
First comparative study scan came back clear