Hi Becky,

I am new to this also and very scared. Take Ija's message to heart. Step back, breath, and revel in the fact that so many strangers are now caring and informed friends, not too far down the road that we all are traveling to look back, reach out a helping hand, and pull us forward. I wish I could give you concrete advice (I too am in the infancy stage of the learning curve), but I know the members here are very proactive and have the best interests of us all in their hearts.

My best and good thoughts always!
Catherine