Michelle- Hang in there. There have been times when I've just had to say "Yes, dear" to just about any kind of anger my husband dealt out. If you need to cry-do it. Go somewhere quiet and let yourself feel the pain, anger, helplessness and all the other stuff that comes with this journey. Sue


cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.