Well I still have not been able to get Dan to come and post on the site, but he listens when I tell him what I learn and sometimes I'll just print out items and leave them for him to read on his own.
My question/concern right now is he is so angry!!! I believe that is a normal part of this process, but I ache for him and want to help. I've mentioned before that we own our own business and missing so much work for the 4 surgeries and bazillion doctor's appointments the past 30 days and then treatment starts tomorrow so we know appointments every day for a while and then he'll start feeling to bad to go to work. And the big part - he has Cancer... So - any insight on how to be thre for him as he is in the anger phase. Anything I should say or not say or just step back, quietly hold his hand and let him get through this part on his own???
Thanks gang!


Michelle, CG to husband (45), DX 2/08 Stage IVa Adenocarcinoma Salivary Gland (T2N2bMO)
Parotidectomy & ND 2/08, Tumor margins not clear, 4 of 30 nodes positve for cancer,
TX IMRT 39x, cisplatin 7x (completed 5/1/08),
PEG (4/22 - 7/9), No port. Currently in remission!