Rosie, what a nice post. I'm sorry about your daughter. I realize that I'm lucky to still have my life and reading the many kind messages I've found on this site has given me a feeling of "accept it and get on with your life".
This is another custom island. This one could be used for ads. This spot is one of the best places for ads on your site to be placed. This can be enabled/disabled on a per forum basis.