Don't be afraid to use some sort of tape to secure the end of the PEG tube, so that it doesn't 'leak'....Buzz had a problem early in treatment, but after spilling stomach contents on his bedclothes two nights in a row, he decided to do paper tape around the stopper.
Hang in there, sweetie...the worst is SURELY behind you!

Lois & Buzz in NC

CG to 77 y/o hubby;SCC Alveolar Ridge; Wake Forest Baptist Hosp surgery: 07/19/07; bi mod radical resection/jaw replacement;
T2 N2-B M0 Stage IV-A
28 IMRT +
6 Paclitaxel/Carboplatin
Getting stronger every day!