 "OCF across the pond" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | Robin and i were always arguing about me asking questions lol.He wouldnt, and i couldnt stop.I needed to know so that i was armed with all the tools i needed to look after him both physically and mentally.
He never understood half of what he was told and i used to put it all into laymans terms to explain it to him.Eventually he was perfectly happy to say nothing and let me do the talking.
It made me feel involved and useful as well.
love liz
Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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