Brian: I don't have the URL but I do have the date. It was posted on 19 July 2004 and I emailed it to my brother because he was so angry & depressed about his life after cancer. One of the statements I particularly liked is "Once people have gotten through treatment, they can only be victims if they choose to allow it. Everything that I was doing before I saw the light, was self-destructive and counter productive to getting on with my new life. My different life, my life with limitations, my imperfect situation." I am hoping my brother reaches that realization. It was a very good, helpful article.