Sara,

I truly believe it's more diffucult being a caregiver than the cancer victim. We seem to show are anger to the one we love the most. My wife is a nurse and is a great caregiver as well as a great human being. I was so lucky to have been married to her for the last 32 tears. Will be 33 years on Sept 18th.

I don't have any advice for you as I feel you are doing as fine a job as can be. Take comfort in knowing your husband knows this as well. Your love and concern for him shows in the tone of your posts. I hope all goes well for the both of you and your family.

Your Friend, Dan