Sara,

I truly believe it's more diffucult being a caregiver than the cancer victim. We seem to show are anger to the one we love the most. My wife is a nurse and is a great caregiver as well as a great human being. I was so lucky to have been married to her for the last 32 tears. Will be 33 years on Sept 18th.

I don't have any advice for you as I feel you are doing as fine a job as can be. Take comfort in knowing your husband knows this as well. Your love and concern for him shows in the tone of your posts. I hope all goes well for the both of you and your family.

Your Friend, Dan


Daniel Bogan DX 7/16/03 Right tonsil,SCC T4NOMO. right side neck disection, IMRT Radiation x 33.

Recurrance in June 05 in right tonsil area. Now receiving palliative chemo (Erbitux) starting 3/9/06

Our good friend and loved member of the forum has passed away RIP Dannyboy 7-16-2006