I am pissed too! I guess I don't know what else to feel. Tired of being sick, tired, vomiting, gagging, in pain, the weight loss! Sounds like youv'e heard it all from your husband. Tell him I said to get on the bulletin board & scream & yell at us, cry all he wants to, we can take it!! I know my wife feels helpless also, but damnit if she doesn't give up. You & her are stronger than I am for sure. You just be there for him, but keep your chin up & be strong. He will get through this & so will you.