Marie-Lynn, Glenn is absolutely correct. This cancer has a nasty habit of jumping from one side to the other. Standard practice is to radiate BOTH sides. This is a VERY important point and should be discussed with your doctor sooner rather than later.

With regard to the PEG, I was ready to leave town and change my name. It was beyond a big deal with me. Sanity prevailed and I felt incredibly stupid for all the worrying I had done beforehand. I was put to sleep and woke up with a tube. Some people have soreness, but I was in very good shape and was out doing heavy yard work the next day. It literally saved my life because radiation and chemo made my mouth too sore to take medication or even water, let alone food. I am quite sure I would not have been able to complete treatment without it.

There are people here who managed without, but I am very glad I had one. If you have specific questions about a PEG, I will be happy to answer them.

But do insist on bilateral radiation. It could save your hubby's life.