Barb: My husband is almost 77 and I just turned 56! We have been together almost 27 years and they have been the very BEST years of my life! One of the traits I found most attractive was Buzz' strength. I have learned SO much from him over the years. He has been my 'rock' through two bouts of breast cancer, and helped me raise my boys into the successful men that they are now. I can relate to your loving Jim as you do. Now you and I must be the strong ones! Together, I believe we can do this!