Barb: I am a two-time cancer survivor, and NOW I'm on the other side of the fence, as a caregiver. Although husband has barely been diagnosed a month, I can already tell you that it is much easier to be the cancer victim! It's so hard to know what to say, much less what to do in this situation. Just know that there are others who are going through this, and we MUST lean on each other as much as possible. It has been most helpful to me to be able to 'vent' and ask many questions on this forum, as we are all in the same situation, in one way or another.
So, welcome, friend! Keep us updated on the progress of your loved one and we will definitely keep you both in our prayers! Lois and Buzz in NC