P.S. for "interested others" Paul's idea of the wireless doorbell is great! And one that helped me alot was a 1st class baby monitor- I hooked the baby speaker to John's bed and the receiving end to my bed upstairs and I could hear every sound he made.[my DIL now uses it and she can hear her baby in his crib when she is outside with the 3 yr old]These are both great comfort features for caregivers.
CGtoJohn:SCC Flr of Mouth.Dx 3\05. Surg.4\05.T3NOMO.IMRTx30. Recur Dx 1\06.Surg 2\06. Chemo: 4 Cycles of Carbo\Taxol:on Erbitux for 7 mo. Lost our battle 2-23-07- But not the will to fight this disease