Well... 15 months after diagnosis, mom has finally given in and has agreed to have 24X7 care. She is still staying in the apartment but will have a home care live-in worker there from 9 am Monday through 9 am Saturday. The family will cover the rest of the time.
I am heading down there tonight to stay over and be there when the live-in worker arrives.
Mom's left leg (calf down to the foot) is now causing her pain when she walks. Two toes on this foot spasm 6 to 7 hours into her sleep. This wakes her up and she only gets relief when she gets out of bed (hence the major need for coverage).
The significant difficulty to walk (just in the mornings a few months back) is now with her all day. The nurse was there today and has coached her in turning up the meds for relief. Mom is fighting this option. But, I think she will agree since her last bit of independence is over. No more living on her own... Cat gone... Car sitting there never to be driven by her again...
Having someone there with her all day is such a relief. I am glad she has agreed to this decision.