you know i read alot on here and this one is really making me more sure that the best thing to do is go for comfort care and be one body not a cut up mess thats sick to the end..im sure in some cases surgery and treatment may work but there are others that i think may be to far out of hand and the best would be the comfort care... we are going to ohio state on monday to see what the dr has to say on this 2nd opinion.. the dr in morgantown really wanted to do some extensive things and EzJim thought it be best and go for a 2nd opinion.. and i agree..im almost certain hes gonna say he doesnt want anything done and just be the way he is.. but i guess we will wait and see..what ever it is he decides then that what i will go with..