The one question that really irks me and that I cann0ot see as appropriate in any circumstance is one I have actually gotten three times--al from nurses, surgical intake interviewers, and other (non-doctor) medical people:

"you have/had tongue cancer? How'd you get THAT?"

I don't think these same people would ever ask a breast cancer patient this--it must have something to do with the rarity of the disease but still--if they thought for one minute before opening their mouths.....


SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"