Just remember that those who behave this way are small minds, but are self aware enough to know inside that they can see little good or positive in themselves. They spend their lives overcompensating for the void which they know lives in them. Coming from that position of internal weakness, they find that the only way they can feel good about themselves is to find someone to vent their facade of "being better than " on. Remember that the true freaks in our world are those who are incapable of the expression compassion and understanding, which are core human virtues. Given what you have expressed as your spiritual beliefs in the board in the past, you are obviously aware of the cyclical nature of all things. These people will one day find themselves exposed and open to a similar experience. No human goes through this life without trial. It is the people like your husband who give us all inspiration, and a model to look to when adversity finds us. He is the living example of
