Derek

Thank you for being so open, and I can understand you fear, But a biopsy is the ONLY true way to know ..We like to say here that it isnt cancer unless the Pathology says it is. SO as hard as IT is Take a BREATH and SLOW down . You can't change ANYTHING right now . SO slow down and enjoy that Little girl and wait to see what that biopsy says , and I KNOW it is sooo sooo soooooooo much easier said then done .

And PLease please kNow That many of us survive this JUST FINE ..It isn't nessacarily a death sentence so don't think so , and NO it isn't easy or FUN by any means..But def Doable I mean alot of us are here to tell about it . As far as your daughter , don't walk down that path at this point , you dont know anything , and you would be surpirsed how well kids do , I have 5 children and they will amaze and suprise you and be your strentgh and and force you to be strong .

As I said it is early and Hind site is always 20-20 ..we have all made decisons in our live where we say ..why did I do that ? But That is how we learn. so please , you have come to the right place and know that we are right here waiting to hear how your biopsy turns out


Shar


Sharlee
35 year old Female Non smoker, very occasional alcohol ..Scc T1N0M0,partial glossectomy and left neck disection ,2/9/07 No rad deemed ness. 4/16 tonsillectomy ..Trimengenial Neuralga due to surgery