Dizzy,

I’m so glad you’ve found the Waterpik useful and helpful.

You mustn’t feel compelled to talk to everyone who calls to ask after you. Maybe someone in your family can be given the task of responding to phone calls. It’s a drag to have to repeat your “story”.over and over. We used to have a friend who called every week to ask how John was feeling and what the doctors were doing for him. I knew it was meant well but I found it too aggressive. I wish I could tell them there’s no weekly progress report.

If you really crave some private time, a short walk round the block is good for you too. Exercise a bit if you can but make sure you do what’s within your ability at this point in time.


Gloria
She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails... Elizabeth Edwards

Wife to John,dx 10/2012, BOT, HPV+, T3N2MO, RAD 70 gy,Cisplatinx2 , PEG in Dec 6, 2012, dx dvt in both legs after second chemo session, Apr 03/13 NED, July 2013 met to lungs, Phase 1 immunotherapy trial Jan 18/14 to July/14. Taxol/carboplatin July/14. Esophagus re-opened Oct 14. PEG out April 8, 2015. Phase 2 trial of Selinexor April to July 2015. At peace Jan 15, 2016.