| OP   "OCF Down Under" Contributing Member (25+ posts) 
 Joined:  Apr 2014 Posts: 40 |  It's so difficult Gloria. It's like having a little child but a grown up version.  On one hand I have to look after myself as no-one else is going to do it for me but on the other it means I'm selfish by looking after my own needs first and not his. I wish I had magic wand that works     Heike
 
 Working caregiver of my husband (51) Simon
 
 03/2014 oropharyngeal cancer, stage IVB, T2N3M0, HPV 16 +
 04/2014  Neck dissection - 39 lymph nodes removed, one node positive greater than 6cm, tumour in tonsil reaching into soft palette
 28/04/14  begin of treatment
 33 x RADS 66 Gy,  33 x chemo cisplatin 13mg each
 29/04/14. pick two lines
 12/06/14  finished treatment
 09/ 14      Pet scan clear
 
 
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