This is going to start a ruckus, and I hesitated before posting it. I disagree with Darrell's posting and concept.

Don't just sit back and let things happen to you, trust in your doctors or not. Learn everything that you can, informed people make the best decisions. That means you are not just along for the ride when someone else makes a decision, you are part of the decision making process. You can't be if you are not involved

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.