"I stay to offer my insights and, ass I said, we are a family."

Typo or Devine providence? You decide. wink

Seriously folks, I have to agree with Glenn's observation here. I am speaking from a Christian upbringing and as an active member of my church. Faith is and will be an important part of many people dealing with a potentially fatal disease. That does not mean, in my opinion, that we should waive our particular faith in front of others. It is outside the purpose of this support forum to attempt to influence anyone

Mark, 21 Year survivor, SCC right tonsil, 3 nodes positive, one with extra-capsular spread. I never asked what stage (would have scared me anyway) Right side tonsillectomy, radical neck dissection right side, maximum radiation to both sides, no chemo, no PEG, age 40 when diagnosed.