One of the drawbacks to a public forum is that anyone gets to say what they want, and there is never a lack of opinions. Luckily on this forum most of them are well founded and come from first hand experience, the kind that really stays with you. Even when we get into it with each other, (and as most of you can remember I am usually the one that gets all the arrows in my back), it is in the spirit of getting the best information out possible. The disagreements pass, but are allowed to stand if no one is getting hurt by the actual information itself in the heated debate. One of the good things about being the controller of the forum, is that I own the delete button. Unfortunately one of my daily chores is to look at the postings that are put on over night (I only have time for the blatant ones) and delete the charlatans trying to get people to go to Mexico for treatment, take some herbal cure all etc. etc., all in the name of preying on those who have little hope. But the button works just as well in lesser instances as well if you look around. If anyone ever feels there is a post on this board that is going to potentially mislead someone or worse, hurt someone


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.