Wendy - it's so good that you have family and friends close by. Do let them help in whatever way they can. These are special times for you and Jim - times to feel the love you have for each other and to enjoy even the smallest of things which can be so meaningful - sometimes just a look or a touch can convey so much more than words can say. You are a wonderful caregiver and have shown such love and strength through all that you and Jim have had to deal with. I join my prayers to others' in hoping for you and Jim to have more time together and for some positive news to come with his treatment plan.

Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)