Hi Wendy. My reply was to Jon who has asked many of the same questions over and over and we have all replied to him over and over with the same responses.

You, me, everyone is allowed to be angry. I am pretty stressed and angry waiting for the results of my husband's biopsy from last Tuesday. I was mainly responding to Jon saying he has zero quality of life. That is very offensive to those on the boards who have severe physical deformaties and limitations due to this cancer but always offer their support and information to all on these boards. I will respond no more. Have a good day - none of us are guaranteed our next breath.


Wanda (47) caregiver to husband John (56) age at diag.(2009)
1-13-09 diagnosed Stage IV BOT SCC (HPV+)
2-12-09 PEG placed, 7-6-09 removed
Cisplatin 7 weeks, 7 weeks (35) IMRT
4-15-09 - treatment completed
8-09,12-09-CT Scans clear, 4-10,6-11-PET Scans clear
4-2013 - HBO (30 dives) tooth extraction
10-2019 - tooth extraction, HBO (10 dives)
11-2019 - Left lateral tongue SCC - Stage 2