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I tried to tactfully neutralize this situation and requested everyone to move on. This was NOT optional or up for discussion! There is NO reason for anyone to become upset or angry over anything that has been written. Expecting members to behave in a civil manner is not too much to ask for, its part of the rules we all agreed to when we signed up. I do NOT want to see anymore posts relating to this thread or any post with even a hint of attitude. OCF is to help sick people and their caregivers. The admin of this forum work very hard to maintain the integrity of this site. As a volunteer, I spend a minimum of 3 hours per day here reading every single post and making edits and corrections where necessary. Im not asking for any appreciation or even a thank you but I do expect respect for not only myself but for every other admin on this site.

I will leave the above post visible for a couple days then it will be deleted. In my opinion, it is not very nice to lash out at an admin for attempting to offer support. I do NOT want to see any more posts of this nature. Of course I am not saying its not ok to vent, we all do it and the members are here to listen. Lets remember not to direct things at someone who was reaching out to help. We all must show respect towards other members and admin. Everyone is an individual who has their own good and bad qualities, we all have something to offer others of this forum. We are NOT each others enemies, everyone is in this together. Lets all get along!!!


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile