I feel horrible that one of the first communications I've had here has gone south some how. I apologize to anyone I offended. That was not my intent.
My intent, in a nutshell, was to let John know that he could count on me to be honest. And I felt I could possibly help him as I've been right where he is and I got the feeling he really wanted straight answers. His referral to the quality of his life was honest. And I hurt for him because I've felt that way.

I really did have good intentions.




Wendy 48@dx
Dx 2/11 stgIVSCC BOT
Dx 3/11 stgI breast (3rd of 4 sisters dx'd)
4/11 dbl mastectomy; no further tx reqd
5/11 PEG placemt;
5/11-7/11 chemox7;IMRTx35;
MRND 9/11
11/12 Dx:papilledema;hydrocephalus;psuedotumor.
11/12 LumbarPeritoneal Shunt
12/12 PEG Out; 100 lbs lost
All scans clear