I would be happy to add a left behind forum if people really want it. While I don't share your concerns about what those in treatment might think, I completely understand the position. Truth is that no one gets a cancer diagnosis without considering that this disease is a killer with them in their sights. The reality is that too many people are lost to this disease. I don't think there is anyway to sugar coat or hide that.

But the emotional burden of any loss can be helped significantly by talking with others, and particularly with those that have had a similar experience. If you want this I will have Chester add the forum this weekend.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.