Oh My Gosh!!! I know what you are experiencing Susan, I have the neck scar too. I have felt like saying have you ever watched "Bambi"? In the words of Thumper, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"!!!Congrats on your 32 years of survivorship!! Awesome!!! Carol

Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10
---update passed away 8-27-11---