Cathy, my husband says the same thing your husband says about the scars! I guess if it was only the scar on my neck I wouldn't be so self conscious of it, but it is the indentation that is so noticeable, love this turtleneck weather!! SMILE!!!

Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10
---update passed away 8-27-11---