Thanks all. He has decided to get the tube and it will be inserted directly into his stomach directly due to the blood vessels. I am going to do my best to keep him swallowing. Christine, thank you for the food list. I have already gotten some of the foods but there are wonderful ideas here. I hope that shakes and other high calorie smoothies will keep him going for as long as possible. I am also going to get Manuka honey. You are all a great help. Off to see my counselor tomorrow that should help me too.