My heart goes out to you care givers smile I learned during my treatments that you have the "harder time" We are busy with our treatments and that gives us the sense of doing and helping with our care. It keeps us occupied.
You, on the other hand, see all we are going through and are helpless to change things. Just remember that in your "helplessness" you are providing comfort and encouragement more than you will ever know or appreciate.
God bless you all.
Chris

Stage 4 squamous cell tonsil cancer. Two lymph nodes involved surgically removed before source found to be tonsil. Implant radiation right on tonsil, regular mask radiation therapy for two months and a final Implant radiation. All clear confirmed by PET scans for 6 years.