Well, where do I begin?

Eldest daughter is an avid dope smoker who when Rod was first diagignosed advised him of how much money he could make o the marker for his meds...charming. She has threatened me regularly for coming between her and her father??? Has not contacted us for at least 5 weeks now...bliss.

Youngest daughter of Rod moved in with us in April, only to move out when I wanted to speak with her for leaving 'me' to care for her dog and feed it with our dogs food for 2 nights without even a call. She was with us for 2 weeks, leaving most of her 'stuff here'. She came over one day to get some of her 'stuff'. A few weeks later, I asked her to come & get all of her gear. She came with her mother & got 1/2. I asked her last week to come back today & get the rest. Although Rod told her this morning we were on our way to the 'van', the car was in the drive, she never even knocked on the door to see him when she was picking up her gear. Delightful.

Rod I'm sure was upset at this, but now I'm not so sure. I haven't said a lot, but boy, am I disgusted. These 2 'creatures' don't like me, obvious, jealousy, fear, denial, mixed bag, most 'f&%^%^ed up in the head person they know' apparently & according to them, quote/unquote, but to be the excuse as to why they don't call or knock on the door to see their dad who is very ill with cancer when they are at the house? I don't get it. I could never treat my parents in that way regardless of how I may or may not feel about someone in their lives. It used to upset me more, before I found this way to vent! I feel for him though. They are 21 & 27yrs respectively. I could go on & on, but no point. Nor worth having as pimples on the end of my nose as mum would say.

Anyone else gone through this? 21 & 27 - no cancer, 53, father, cancer. I want to smack them but they'd probably have me knocked off!! LOL

J