Eric-Too often the caregivers are the ones who see what's going on with the patient before the patient even does. We can see what they can't because they are so scared. We are also the ones, far too often, left picking up the pieces. So at the risk of offending you, Get off your soapbox!

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.