cecilia, thank you, that makes feel a little better, I guess I'm just looking for some ones mistake and not the fact that it could just be that aggresive in spreading so quickly. We have been just going through all the phases which I'm sure you all know well, anger, sadness, hope, and so on.

Rachael- daughter 53 year old mom at stage IV oral in jaw bone and has mestasized though lymph nodes, shoulders and spine..... more details to come.
mom now 55 and has metastized to chest and liver, has stopped all treatments and meds 7/12/11

**let good prevail over evil**