Jennifer - I am so sorry to hear about your husband. Although my husband is well, I was the primary caregiver for my Mom who had pancreatic cancer. She also wanted to be at home and we had a great HOSPICE program. I know how hard this is for you. There are resources; the forum, the American Cancer Society, your place or worship; neighbors. Sometimes people just do not know how to help and you need to be specific with your requests. Some people may not be comfortable around your husband but could help with errands or household chores. Make sure (if you have not already) that you talk with the social worker / counselor at the hospice; learn about the stages that terminal patients go through. Learn about the grief process. Ask for help. I wish you well and will keep you in my prayers. Tina