My husband's oral cancer has come back again (6 times in 20 years) and he is dying. I am losing my mind as he loses his - confusion-delirium-aggression...I have him in a hospice program, but they are not helping much. They just keep giving him more/stronger drugs and only show up once a week for a half hour. I am all alone taking care of him 24/7 and am scared/depressed/angry/exhausted. I need someone to talk to, but no one I know understands. Is anybody out there?