Hi Andrew,

Another option is to consult with the Social Work department at the hospital where you are being treated. They may be able to help you find some assistance and may have a list of volunteers who can help. Your doctor/team should be able to help you connect with the social workers if you aren't sure how to do this.

Also, if any of your friends or family ever says "just let me know what I can do to help" - they MEAN it! The problem is you are going to have to ask for specific help from them, but go ahead and do it. It will make them feel good to know that they can truly help out by driving you to appointments, making meals (if you are able to eat solid food), cleaning up your home, watching pets, whatever. Make a big list of all the things that would be helpful, and the next time someone asks "what can I do?" just hand them the list and ask them to pick something that would work for them.

Best of luck to you!

-Tricia