Cookey,

My heart goes out to you and Robin.. I was/am a pt so dont have so much caregiver exp, ( unless you consider being a mom such that LOL) I also did not have rad. But I give you credit for staying so strong , because i cant imagine it is easy . I know he is feeling that no control feeling and that is a horriblr feeling, yet i am sure you are experiencing it as well. I just hope and Pray that you will both get through this as smoothly as possible and with love and pateince and understanding ( maybe even a little screaming into pillows and pulling your hair , thats what I'd be doing lol) you will get through this .......My thoughts are with you both