Hi friends
Update:
The occupational therapist was in today she gave me advice in how to set up the bedroom for Alan and explained the use of the hospital bed to everyone. Alan has decided to try it.
I have what they call here in BC Pallitive care. They send a nurse by every day if I need it. There is home care hours if I request it.
My daughter =in-law insists I phone and get them to set up time with a councilor so I have someone to talk to that can make sure my meds are right. Did I ever mention I am a CFS/ME patient. "no stress" LOL
I stripped the wall paper off the walls in the bedroom that is going to be Alan's new room. New floor in this week and then I will call and have the bed delivered. We still go to the Dr's office but he has said he will come to the house as Alan progresses.
I am hiring a full time assistant. She starts on Monday. Like an idiot I also have two new clients starting next week as well. I may hire a second one just to keep things going.
Son #1 took care of Alan this Am so I could get into the office. He got to answer the uncomfortable question and tell alan where he lives. It showed them I wasn't making this stuff up. They became much more fexible when the OT and the home care nurse were here.
Alan is having the mind problems because the cancer has moved into the brain area . It effects the blood flow and the memeory area. Thanks for your advice and suport.
Hugs Marlene