Dear Mar, Having recently been through a good bit of what you may face, I would be very willing to talk to you via e-mail or phone anytime you wish. In most respects, this will be a very personal journey for you, however, there are some "hard core things" that others of us have experienced and had to figure out a way to deal with. It's hard to guess what questions you want answers to now [and I suspect they will change as time goes forward]. Just want you to know that we are feeling your pain. Amy in the Ozarks