Update on Alan:
We were back at the Cancer center twice since May. In June He Couldn't have radiation or chemo because he was too fragile to withstand the treatment. The dr's talked him into the PEG tube.
The PEG has made all the difference. He is still losing weight but is no longer dehydrated. He gets all his med's through the tube except the Fentanol which is on the patch. Alan only manges sipping water by mouthand prefers it with a little rum. Thank you.
This last visit to the Cancer Center was just frustrating. WE saw an associate of our main cancer oncologist. She decided that Alan needed anothe CT scan because the steriods work at giving him back his mind. This means brain cancer. With Brain cancer no chemo. Apparently they missed the fact he got really bad headaches. We got back to PG and the dr's office here didn't know about the need for another CT scan. Alan doen't want the radiation treatment for the brain cancer.
The only good thing about the trip was seeing our kids again.
We are taking one day at a time. I get so tired and have started falling again. I hope I am not going into another CFS bout. Stress does seem to do it. Then what?